Non Tobago's home is shaped by loss, resilience, and hard-earned self-reliance. After her husband died, she raised her seventeen-year-old daughter and her younger child while working a 9-to-5 job and selling school lunch hampers on the side. She taught her children not to wait for handouts: her daughter even bakes and sells her own treats. But the grief ran deep, and the family's pain was so severe that they once ended up in a psychiatric hospital.